February's shoutout: Love is in the air! ^_^
**A friend jumped on the train of Love lately. Waving my hand happily, I am wishing her the sweetest ever journey...Yet, she was telling me, "Nat, I ain't have strong feeling for him. I have no confidence in maintaining this relationship. Afraid of loving him too deeply...But, can't help thinking it's not fair to him."
Conflict. Complex. Confusing. Afterall, love ain't so lovely, huh? :)
I could understand her insecurity. Sometimes, we love ourselves more than loving others. Because we are fear of getting hurt in the end of the day. A deep cut through the flesh...Once is enough. But, I do believe the power of true love will eventually chase out the feeling of fear in one's relationship. And we wouldn't know when. And, we gotta have faith in love.
Love is unmeasurable. You can't count its depth inch by inch. Neither could you return any tender love by exactly the same volume? Love isn't a trade. Need not worry about being fair or not in loving someone. Because when you love someone wholeheartedly, giving by all means...you will feel the momentum of the love bouncing back to you. Even if it doesn't, it will leave a beautiful scar on your heart...makes you prettier than ever. :)
Happy Valentine's Day ~ Natalie
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2 comments:
ya, love is a word that easy to say but hard to practice. :)
I guess it is common for most of us to feel insecure at the beginning of a relationship.
Time will prove everything. I guess what your friend needs is to give each other more time.
No pain, no gain. If you don't love then how can you feel love?~Joel
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